The Complete Guide to Pastoral Formation: From Calling to Commission
At Coram Deo, we understand the profound journey of becoming a pastor. It’s not just about gaining knowledge or skills—it’s about transforming your heart, mind, and soul to serve God’s people faithfully. Pastoral formation is a process, a calling, and a commission to lead with humility and love.
If you feel called to pastoral ministry but wonder how to navigate the path, this guide is for you. Let’s walk together through the stages of pastoral formation—from discovering your calling to stepping into the mission God has prepared for you.
What Is Pastoral Formation?
Pastoral formation is the spiritual, intellectual, and practical process of preparing for pastoral ministry. It involves developing your character, deepening your faith, and equipping yourself with the theological and practical tools needed to lead.
This journey includes three core areas:
Being: Your identity in Christ and your character.
Knowing: Theological knowledge and understanding.
Doing: Practical skills for ministry.
It’s not a one-size-fits-all process. Each step is unique to your calling, but there are typical stages that most pastors experience.
Step 1: Recognizing Your Calling
The journey begins with a sense of calling. You may feel a deep tug on your heart, a sense of purpose that aligns with God’s mission.
How Do You Know You’re Called?
A love for serving others and a passion for sharing the Gospel.
Confirmation from others—mentors, friends, or church leaders.
A consistent desire to grow spiritually and deepen your relationship with God.
Scripture Insight: “Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.” (1 Corinthians 15:58)
Action Step: Seek guidance through prayer and mentorship. Surround yourself with people who will help you discern your calling.
Step 2: Developing Your Character
Pastoral leadership starts with your inner life. Your character is foundational—your integrity, humility, and faithfulness set the tone for your ministry.
Key Traits for Pastors:
Humility: A willingness to serve and learn.
Integrity: Living a life that reflects Christ.
Resilience: The ability to endure challenges and stay steadfast in your calling.
Practical Tips:
Engage in spiritual disciplines like prayer, fasting, and Bible study.
Seek accountability from mentors or a trusted spiritual community.
Reflect on areas of personal growth and ask God to shape you into His image.
Step 3: Theological Education
Understanding Scripture and theology is essential for pastoral ministry. Pastoral training programs provide the tools you need to interpret God’s Word accurately and apply it to the lives of your congregation.
Key Areas of Study:
Biblical interpretation (hermeneutics).
Systematic theology (understanding core doctrines).
Church history and its relevance today.
Options for Theological Training:
Seminaries and Bible colleges.
Online pastoral training programs.
Non-denominational training organizations like Coram Deo.
Action Step: Choose a program that aligns with your calling and provides comprehensive pastoral formation.
Step 4: Gaining Practical Ministry Experience
Pastoral formation isn’t complete without hands-on experience. You need opportunities to preach, counsel, lead worship, and serve in real-world ministry settings.
How to Gain Experience:
Internships or apprenticeships at local churches.
Volunteering in various ministry roles (youth ministry, small groups, etc.).
Partnering with organizations like Coram Deo that provide mentorship and field opportunities.
Scripture Insight: “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” (Matthew 9:37-38)
Tip: Be open to feedback and use every experience as an opportunity to grow.
Step 5: Spiritual Formation and Self-Care
Ministry is demanding, and spiritual burnout is a real risk. Pastoral formation must include practices that sustain your spiritual health and prevent exhaustion.
Best Practices for Spiritual Health:
Regular time with God through prayer and worship.
Establishing boundaries to protect your time with family.
Finding a mentor or spiritual director to guide you.
Remember, you can’t pour into others if your cup is empty.
Step 6: Receiving Your Commission
The final stage is stepping into the role of pastor with confidence and humility. Depending on your denomination or church, this often involves a formal commissioning or ordination process.
What Commissioning Involves:
Affirmation of your calling by church leaders.
A charge to shepherd God’s people faithfully.
A prayerful commitment to the mission of Christ.
Scripture Insight: “And I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding.” (Jeremiah 3:15)
Challenges in Pastoral Formation
No journey is without challenges. Here are a few you might face—and how to overcome them:
Imposter Syndrome: Feeling unqualified? Remember, God equips those He calls.
Balancing Family and Ministry: Set boundaries and prioritize your relationships.
Staying Spiritually Grounded: Make spiritual formation a non-negotiable part of your life.
Coram Deo: Your Partner in Pastoral Formation
At Coram Deo, we walk alongside you every step of this journey. Our mission is to equip church leaders to multiply disciples and churches for the glory of God.
What We Offer:
Comprehensive pastoral training programs.
Mentorship from seasoned leaders.
Opportunities to gain practical experience and grow spiritually.
We believe generosity, humility, and faithfulness are core values of pastoral leadership, and we’re here to help you embody them.
Your Next Step
We'd love to hear from you if you’re ready to take the next step in your pastoral formation. Whether you’re just starting or looking to grow deeper in your calling, Coram Deo supports and guides you.
Remember, pastoral formation is a calling, growth, and transformation journey. As you step into this process, trust that God is with you, shaping you into the leader He’s called you to be.
Get started today. Contact us to learn more about our programs and resources for pastoral training.
